Hoi, I'm Melvin.
Coach and Mentor for everyday men like yourself. Do I have my shit perfectly together? Not at all. No one will ever have their shit fully together and I will not pretend like I do.
I support men like you to build rock solid foundations. Teach you integrity, honoring your word is important as a man. And help you build a life that is exciting for you 💪
At age 29 I moved from the Netherlands to Australia to follow the love of my life. I went from being an online marketeer and gym junkie in NL to becoming a teacher assistant in Aus and humanitarian in Nepal. I didn’t know it back then, but I had run away from my life, responsibilities and suppressed emotions.
Even although I had a rewarding job, changing people’s lives in Aus and Nepal, and was in a relationship with my beautiful partner, I still felt so alone, anxious, and never good enough.
It was only in Australia, that I discovered the world of personal development and coaching that made me so much more aware of my (limiting) beliefs, habits, and patterns. Only with the help of IFS (Internal Family Systems) I managed to work on the relationship with every part and emotion within me.
After the groundwork was laid, I started to question: What kind of man am I? What does that even mean? The deeper I went into my own basement of my emotions, the more I found.
My life in pictures





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